A couple of weeks ago
angels invaded my Acura. Or so I thought. It turns out my sweet little three
year old was flooding the space with his sweet singing. For a while now he has
been storytelling, rhyming, and improvising to music. Making up silly songs to
narrate our various activities and routines has become part of the way we
interact throughout the day. But this was unlike anything I’d heard from him
before. He was singing along to a song from the Drum collection, “They Come
Back!” Now if you know Drum then
you already know that song is a tearjerker! It pulls on heartstrings related to
the tenderness associated with leaving your precious little one in the care of
another. But, of course, the song lyrics are from the child’s perspective and
the song transmits the vulnerability that I imagine Hays experiences when I
leave him at nursery school or with a sitter, and the courage that he must
stretch to embody in order to trust that I am going to come back.
This song is a
heart-piercer for sure and it was deeply significant for it to be the first
song that Hays sang along to. It happened like magic. I was so mesmerized
observing him in the rearview mirror that I’m surprised I didn’t wreck! He
spontaneously sang a small section, realized what he had done, and then
earnestly set about trying to sing along more and more. In a constant process
of refinement, he continued singing the correct lyrics while matching them to
the tone and rhythm of the music. Each time the song ended he would urgently
insist, “Again!” I could tell he was working so hard to remember the words,
coordinate his breathing, and find the song’s key. It was like watching his
musical brain blossom!
I know I’m his mom but
I swear there was more to it than just matching words to music. His singing was
laced with an expressive quality as if his heart was unleashing through this
new conduit of song. His painfully sweet voice seemed to be carrying poignant
sentiment. I was very deeply moved.
Right away he began
using his new capacity for singing along. To experience him in class just
belting it out so uninhibitedly is absolutely joyful! It’s hard to believe that
we have been attending Music Together®
classes since before he could walk. And now he sings! There is a purity to his
singing that connects me with innocence—not just his innocence but my own and
that of each of us. When this small boy whom I am graced to call my son sings a
song, I feel linked to the little one I once was—that part of myself beyond the
woundings and challenges of my 37 years. Hays’s singing cuts directly through
my inner walls and defenses as I tearfully behold a human heart expressing its
inherent love through song.
This coming semester I
am so excited to take the first ever multi-generational class offered by Tiny Voices Music Together. Hays is
blessed to have close relationships with his grandparents but I am excited he
will get to interact with elders who are not family. And I am curious about how
these older adults will experience the children’s music making. I can’t help
but hope that, similarly to what I’ve described, they might for a moment feel their
burdens and weariness fall away revealing the innocence fundamental to each
human life—the innocence carried so perfectly by the sweet song of a child. |